Human Resources Management
 

The Parent Gap: Building a Supportive Workplace for Working Moms

Firms can take seven actionable steps to ensure that working moms leave with a sense of security and return with the resources to maintain a work-life balance.
By Kelly F. Zimmerman
July 2025
 

When corporate attorney Brittany Buxton took parental leave with her first child, she felt completely disconnected from her clients and work, but not in a way that left her feeling confident about her time away.

“When I became a mother, I realized how deeply the legal profession lacked infrastructure to support parental transitions,” Buxton says. “The relationships I had spent years building were handed off, often without my input, and I returned to a professional landscape that felt unfamiliar.”

This experience is what led Buxton to launch Ardent Impact Collective, formerly Ardent Life Design, a consultancy dedicated to supporting ambitious women — primarily lawyer moms — and their families. Through Ardent Impact Collective, Buxton has also launched The Lawyer Mom Society, an initiative designed to support lawyer moms navigating the transitions of pregnancy, maternity leave and reintegration into the workplace.

Buxton’s experience with return-to-work challenges isn’t unique. In fact, she views what she calls “practice continuity anxiety,” the fear that taking leave will derail career momentum, as a top concern for working mothers in the legal industry.

Fear over career progression is a universal problem in professional spaces, not just for moms working in the legal industry. According to a report by Parentaly, a company that provides resources for organizations navigating parental leave and beyond, this fear is actually the top concern for working moms.

Parentaly’s study showed that more than two-thirds of working moms worried about the impact of their parental leave on their career progression — and the higher the pay, the more likely working mothers felt this way. That number jumped to 84% for working moms earning more than $250,000 in a year, a number that’s worth paying attention to in an industry where starting salaries for lawyers can easily approach that amount.

So, what’s a working mother to do? Keep reading for seven ways law firms can help to build a supportive workplace for working moms, whether they are just going out on leave, returning to work or already have older kids. And while this article primarily focuses on moms due to the increased prejudice women often face when trying to build a family and a career, the suggestions below are applicable to any working parent.

1. Create Policies to Protect Client Relationships

Forty-five percent of women surveyed by Parentaly said they worried about the impact of their parental leave on active projects and client relationships, a fear Buxton says she has heard echo in the legal industry.

Establishing policies that protect the attorney-client relationship is one way to help create peace of mind during parental leave, Buxton says. Rather than treating parental leave as a workflow disruption that’s managed by a pass-off of work, law firms should instead focus on continuity models that help to preserve each attorney’s unique professional DNA and client relationships while they are out of office. This can help to provide some peace of mind for parents before they return to work.

Rather than treating parental leave as a workflow disruption that’s managed by a pass-off of work, law firms should instead focus on continuity models.

At the same time, coverage for parents who are out on leave is still necessary to fulfill client expectations, so building a strong coverage plan — and planning early — is a good place to start. According to Allison Whalen, Parentaly’s Chief Executive Officer, a good coverage plan should include “defining who owns what while they’re out, setting expectations for communication and transitioning key client relationships. That structure gives everyone more confidence, especially in environments like law firms where deliverables are high-stakes and hours are closely tracked.”

2. Establish Reintegration Processes

Despite the pressure to hit the ground running, most working moms returning from leave aren’t ready to lock and load. They’re likely dealing with new schedules, challenges surrounding childcare and changes to the dynamics of their families and daily lives. It’s a lot to sort through while maintaining the high-stakes pressure that often accompanies a legal job.

This is where re-onboarding and ramp-back programs can come into play. Aside from having a designated administrator in charge to fully own and manage the return-to-work experience for working parents, having a comprehensive ramp-back program to help new parents reacclimate can be extremely effective. More than just allotting time to dig out of inboxes and catch up with colleagues on important projects, a ramp-up program can also involve allowing new parents to slowly immerse themselves back into full-time work mode and reintegrate into work-life balance.

“We’ve seen law firms allow reduced billable targets for the first month or two back, or delay high-pressure assignments while the parent readjusts,” Whalen says. “This isn’t about lowering the bar, it’s about creating the conditions for someone to get back to full productivity without burning out on day one.”

3. Consider New Billing Methods

Law firms can have billable hour pressures that don’t necessarily align with caregiving demands — a challenge that doesn’t go away as children get older. However, by prioritizing trust, output and quality rather than individual time sheets, firms can find other ways to ensure employees meet their billing requirements.

Buxton recommends a shift to project-based or team-based billing. By bucketing hours into group categories like this, it can help accommodate the juggle that many working parents face on a daily basis, especially during transitional times of year, such as school breaks. Reframing the approach to billing can also encourage firms to consider other ways to assess an attorney’s value outside of billable hours.

By prioritizing trust, output and quality rather than individual time sheets, firms can find other ways to ensure employees meet their billing requirements.

4. Provide Childcare-Based Resources

As any working parent knows, the typical school calendar does not align with traditional business expectations. School days are short compared to business hours, breaks are often long and fall during end-of-quarter requirements, and no-school days often far exceed the number of vacation days that employees can take. Parents with younger children may also face challenges when caregivers call in sick or when daycares are closed for their own breaks. Some parents may be caring for children who have extra medical needs. And, of course, there are always the unanticipated days when a child falls ill.

Firms, however, may be in a position to help close the childcare gap by offering the following:

  • Childcare stipends to help cover daycare, emergency childcare providers, summer camps or day-off camps

  • On-site childcare options

  • Flexible PTO use to help cover school holidays or child illness

  • Support services for families that may have children with special needs

  • Fully remote weeks or more flexible hours during school and daycare transitions

  • Lighter workloads during weeks where parents may need extra support

  • An internal parent resource group where employees can share strategies and coordinate support

5. Remember Your Administrative Employees

Just as it takes a village to raise a child, it takes a village to run a law firm or corporate legal department. While it can be easy to focus on benefits and policies for partners and rainmakers, it’s important to remember employees who help keep the firm’s day-to-day operations moving. “Support staff often face the same gaps with fewer resources,” Buxton says, which is why it’s important to ensure they receive the same types of support as attorneys.

6. Embrace Flexibility — But for Real

Remote work has been a hot topic for some time, and continues to be, especially as organizations grapple with the benefits of in-person versus virtual work. However, Whalen says, having flexibility in terms of where and when the work gets done can make it significantly more manageable for parents to maintain engagement and productivity.

“If a job can be done well remotely, at least some of the time, then building in that flexibility shows trust and helps retain high performers,” Whalen says. “Especially for parents, having even one or two days at home can be the difference between staying in the role or stepping away entirely.”

Tamara Klein, a mom, legal recruiter and former lawyer herself, agrees with this sentiment, and points to the success of virtual law firms as proof that remote policies can benefit both employees and employers. However, at the same time, she stresses the importance of not penalizing working moms — or any employee —  for taking advantage of the flexibility they’ve been offered by their firms.

“There comes a point where you have to recognize that people come from different situations,” Klein says. “It’s not just mothers, it’s caregivers as well.”

7. Encourage Healthy Families

At the end of the day, it’s in a law firm’s best interest to help their attorneys and support staff raise happy and healthy families. “We shouldn’t be discouraging our employees from having families and having healthy families,” Klein says.

Solid healthcare, childcare support and equitable leave policies are just a few ways to do this, but at the end of the day, flexibility is also key to helping working parents thrive — and ultimately stick around.

“We do want to encourage stickiness,” Klein says, “but nobody is going to be sticky in an office that keeps them from their children.”

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